Sex & Intimacy

Relationships, Sex & intimacy

There is So Much Love in Friendships: A Peak at Platonic Intimacy from the Realities of VanLife

Taylor Neal

A raw and honest exploration of the breadth of platonic intimacy shared between two friends on a Van Life adventure. A true story written by Sensualist community member, Taylor.

Relationships, Sex & intimacy

Tell Me What You Want: Asking For What You Want in the Bedroom

Arielle Aquino

Asking for what we want in the bedroom is something so many of us struggle with. Read one woman's story of learning to overcome that fear, and her tips on how to practice asking for the things you like.

Relationships, Sex & intimacy

Building Intimacy in a New Relationship

Alex Shea

Finally finding someone you connect with after an endless cycle of dating interviews is a magical feeling. But exploring intimacy should be a gradual and conscious process. Read our guide for building long-lasting intimacy.

Muses, Self care, Sex & intimacy

Sex Party Medicine

Mike Rosen

Have you ever wondered what a sex party is like? Have you ever considered how sexy, experimental and yes, healing, it could be? Read one man's personal story of his experience at a sex party, and how it helped heal a major part of his relationship to his sexuality.

Muses, Relationships, Self care, Sex & intimacy

Sex During Pregnancy and After Baby

Shania Lane

Full spectrum birth worker, Shania shares all the ways to make sex during pregnancy and post-pregnancy, safe and enjoyable.

Muses, Sex & intimacy

Phoenix Wings

Lorna Shannon

A three part poem celebrating love, sensuality, safety in relationship, play, bdsm, pleasure, and the transcendent power of sex.

Sex & intimacy

All About The Female Orgasm, Including How To Have One

Alex Shea

Female orgasms are unique and diverse - each one is different between different women, and even within your own experience. Alex breaks down the basics of an orgasm and some tips on how to get there.

two women naked in bed holding each other

Relationships, Sex & intimacy

Sexual Identity and Sexuality, How Do They Fit Together?

Alex Shea

Confused about what sexual identity means? Curious to learn if there's something that resonates with you and your sexuality? Read our article to learn all about gender, sexual and romantic orientation.

Sex & intimacy

Squirting: The Ultimate in Female Sexuality?

Arielle Aquino

Is squirting all that it's cracked up to be? Is squirting real? Is squirting pee? Who is more interested in squirting - men or women? Read Arielle's personal story and perspective on this mysterious phenomenon.

Sex & intimacy

Mutual Masturbation: How To Intimately Engage With Your Partner

Alex Shea

The benefits of mutual masturbation are both individual and couple-oriented. Learn how to develop intimacy, reduce stress, build confidence and increase communication with your partner.

Rituals, Sex & intimacy

What is Sacred Sexuality? An Intro

Emily Cummings

Wondering what the idea of "sacred sexuality" is all about? Read Emily Cummings' introductory article on the history behind this concept, plus some practices you can incorporate into your next session.

Muses, Sex & intimacy

Girls in the Bathroom

Sabrielle Lezeau

Two friends take their flirtations to the next level after a girl's night out... an erotic story written by Sensualist community member, Sabrielle.

Sex & intimacy

A Comprehensive Guide to Lubricants

Arielle Aquino

The wonderful, slippery world of lube can be overwhelming. That's why we're here to break down the ins and outs ;) of ingredients, pH and all the different types of lube out there.

Relationships, Sex & intimacy

How to Transform A Date from Interview to Sensual Adventure

Starielle Hope

Dating can sometimes feel like a chore of interviewing candidates to find the right one for the job. Read tips on how to make the experience more exciting - even if the date turns out to be a flop.

Relationships, Sex & intimacy

Sex Education and Toys for LGBTQ+ Communities

Swan Huntley

So, you might be asking, why should pleasure products for the LGBTQ+ community be any different than mainstream product lines? Read Swan's article to find out!

Relationships, Rituals, Self care, Sex & intimacy

How to Bring More Sensuality into the Bedroom

Starielle Hope

Learn easy ways you can use your five senses to bring more sensuality into your intimate experiences- both partnered and alone!

Rituals, Sex & intimacy

Calming Your Nervous System: Relaxation Techniques for Sex

Arielle Aquino

Mental state has a huge effect on one's sexual experience! Read our tips on how to get in the mindset for sex and feel more relaxed so you can ultimately feel more pleasure.

Relationships, Sex & intimacy

How to Ask For What You Want In Bed

Starielle Hope

Voicing what you want in the bedroom can be scary but we're here to give some helpful tips to make this less intimidating and more pleasurable for all.

Sex & intimacy

Making Love To The Senses: A Practical Guide To Sensual Kink

Morynn Read

Inside the vast universe of kink exists a whole planet of exquisite, gentler sensual play, called Sensual Kink. Learn all about this new form of sensual play.

Sex & Intimacy

Embracing Our Fantasies

An aphrodisiac for your inbox